Becoming Superman: Kick the Krap out of Kryptonite

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When I was a little kid, I went as Superman for Halloween probably five or six years in a row.  I’m not kidding.  I freaking loved Superman, watching all of the movies on repeat and wearing a cape as often as possible.  I even wore red undies on the outside sometimes.  Yup.  So, why did I love Superman so much?

Because he’s a total badass!

Faster than a speeding bullet, more powerful than a locomotive, and able to leap tall buildings in a single bound – who WOULDN’T want to be Superman, right?  Now, although the Man of Steel is pretty much indestructible, there’s one thing that can take him down quickly: Kryptonite.

Suck.

Pretend for a minute that you’re Superman in a quest for weight loss and a healthier lifestyle. I bet you’ve tried to get in shape in the past, you’ve probably even had some success and watched the number on your scale get smaller and smaller.  However, there’s that one thing (or two) that eventually always knocked you off your path and sent you in downward spiral back to complacency and unhealthiness.

This failure is your Kryptonite, and if you really want to become a superhero you’re going to have to learn how to deal with it.

Identify It.

If you’ve tried to get in shape before and failed, obviously something went wrong or you’d already be where you want to be.  Did you get sick and give up?  Did you drown your sorrows in a week long binge after your team lost in the playoffs?  Did you have a birthday at work and eat an entire cookie cake by yourself?  Maybe you just ran out of steam and lost your motivation.

Think about your past experiences with fitness and wellness and write down what went wrong. Usually there’s an event or two that you can point to as the cause of your downfall.

This is important – don’t beat yourself up about having a weakness.  If Superman can have one, so can you.  Now, Superman’s weakness is easy for him to identify: it’s green, it came from a meteorite, it glows, and makes him feel like ass.  Discovering yours might not be so easy.

These are mine.

Make a Plan to Deal With It.

Once you’ve figured out your Kryptonite, it’s time to take care of business, put on your cape, and make sure your Kryptonite doesn’t take you down again.  The best solution I’ve found for setting new habits comes from Leo over at ZenHabits:

  1. Write down your plan.
  2. Identify your triggers and replacement habits.
  3. Focus on doing the replacement habits every single time the triggers happen, for about 30 days.

If you signed up for the 28-day challenge on the Nerd Fitness Message Boards (it’s where the cool kids hang out), this is a perfect opportunity for you to kick your Kryptonite to the kur…curb.

Here’s how I plan on dealing with mine:

What’s your Kryptonite, and how do you plan on dealing with it? There’s no reason we all can’t be superheroes, so let’s help each other out!

-Steve

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  • 202020Diet
    Hey Steve!

    I do the same thing with my computer, I have a reminder that tells me when to have a snack, otherwise I forget to eat and end up getting too hungry, then McDonalds happens.

    Great plan for replacing habits, Leo is a genius for sure.

    My personal kryptonite, too much work, poor time management, pizza and spaghetti.

    Talk to ya later.
  • NerdFitness
    Thanks for the comment! Yup, poor time management is my killer. I'm trying to get better!

    -Steve
  • mschoeffler
    Hey Steve, you might like a similarly themed article: Eight steps to becoming superhuman. Great geeks think alike.

    http://www.roadbud.com/blog/eight-steps-to-beco...
  • NerdFitness
    That's a great article, thanks man!

    -S
  • My Kryptonite is that I work too much. All of my self worth is tied up in how much I work. Before my weight loss journey I was working up to 75 hours a week. I'm a sign language interpreter and to work more than 30 hours is a little crazy...

    I'm a lot crazy.

    No let me rephrase that. I'm not crazy. It's how I feel like I am important. Everyone in my immediate family has failed in so many aspects that I'm aggressively trying to not go down the same path as them.

    Therapy is helping me a bit.

    The last 3 months I've only worked 39 hours/week. Time to run, time to think about food. Time to get sleep. Time to lose 25 pounds. Come April 1st I'm back up to 52 hours/week. I shouldn't have committed so quickly. I should have taken the time to think about how taking on an extra 20 hours would impact me. I didn't and now I'm looking down the path of a very busy schedule for the next 3 months.

    Instead of being disappointed in myself, I'm just going to work through it. I have a few weeks to prepare. Work out a new schedule that includes making sure I eat well and am still getting exercise. I may join a gym because that will give me a place to go and then shower and leave for work from there.

    Funny thing is I don't need to work this hard. No credit cards. Car is close to being paid off. House payment is small enough that working 32 hours a week is sufficient. And yet, I panic that I'm not good enough if I'm not always working.

    Damn Kryptonite!
  • NerdFitness
    Hey Tara!

    Thanks for the comment - I have the exact same problem...I work way too much
    for my day job, and then I come home and do 5+ hours of Nerd Fitness a
    day...my health always takes the back seat to both. I've tried to justify
    forcing myself to sleep and eat more by telling myself that it's part of my
    business...have to take care of myself to inspire others to take care of
    themselves!

    I'll yell at you to work less and you can yell at me to sleep more, deal? :)

    -Steve
  • Deal!
  • curvygirly
    Great article as always! Maybe you can cut down on Nerd Fitness (don't worry I'm disappointed saying it too), to be able to put in more personal time? Maybe install some buddies to be moderators, or help you with the site stuff. For me, sleep is a really big issue as well. So when I have 30 minutes to spare, I take a nap. Doesn't matter where I am , i take a nap. Usually I would tell myself that, and end up sitting infront of msn for that time and by that time, it's back to my work. So take all the distractions away when you want to nap. Also, while doing your blogging maybe give yourself a time limit to work on it. or throughout the day/week you put down ideas , little scribbles so when you do start the writing it becomes a lot easier. Make sure there is no work in your bedroom, though that can be hard. I don't study on my bed, that way, my bed is only made for relaxing purposes, psychologically it helps. Also buy,Johnsons Lavender and Chamomile Body wash or lotion. Sounds fruity but it really helps put you to sleep. Use it half an hour before you plan to sleep, and it will make you more likely to finish up what you are doing in a hurry!
    Sorry for the gigantic advice piece, but I know how important it is to sleep. If anything, set one day a week where you catch up on zzz for a few hours.

    I've been identifying my kryptonite in my 28 day challenge, adding pro's and con's daily so I can see what works for me and what doesn't. I think alot of us refuse to consider what doesn't work for us, we like to fool ourselves. I used to justify whatever meals I ate with my friends, bc "they ate it too, so why is it bad for me to eat", now I def know better. Good post on letting us realize we need a wake up call!
  • Endorphin_Dude
    Wearing red undies on the outside? Hmmm.
  • NerdFitness
    Only when in costume though. And I was 5.

    Not all of us can be Endorphin_Dude :)

    -Steve
  • For some reason, I felt the need to share this:

    http://th07.deviantart.net/fs46/300W/i/2009/203...

    Super Nerd, mayhaps? :D
  • NerdFitness
    Hahahah, m00se that is awesome.

    Good find.

    -Steve
  • This is an excellent post, and something I definitely need to do for myself.
  • NerdFitness
    Thanks Jeremy.

    It's important to be prepared for these things before they happen or you'll end up playing catch-up.

    -Steve
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