A Beginner’s Guide to Getting in Shape

You woke up today and looked in the mirror.

And you said to yourself, “Gosh darnit (or #$^@  $#@$@%), I’m going to get in shape!”

Just one problem – you don’t quite know HOW.

It’s okay; we’ve all been there.   This might be the first, tenth, or the fiftieth time you’ve tried to lose weight and get healthy.  Sure, things didn’t work last time, or the time before that, or even the time before that…”but things are going to be different THIS time,” right?

So you hop on the internet, search “how to lose weight,” and see 7.8 billion websites that promise you fast results with minimal effort.  You get overwhelmed, intimidated, and then go back to playing Modern Warfare 3 or Hello Kitty 2: Island Adventure.

Somehow, you stumbled across Nerd Fitness…which means there is hope for you yet 🙂

By the end of this article, you’re going to know exactly how to get in shape.

Get your act together

First and foremost, if you suck at life…it’s time to stop.

I know it.  You know it.  Even your mom knows it (she called me).

So let’s get started.  Think back to the last time(s) you tried to get in shape and lose weight.  How successful were you?  What made you fall off the wagon?  Congratulations, you already know what “get in shape” method doesn’t work for you.

They say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.  Unless you’re insane, don’t try to get in shape the same way you did last time…it’ AIN’T gonna work!  If you counted calories, ran on a treadmill, did kickboxing, tried starving yourself, or whatever, and you’re not happy with the results, it’s time to try something new.

May I recommend the Nerd Fitness method of success: the Triforce of Winning!  Well, I just came up with that title, but now that’s what I’ll call it henceforth.  If you want to succeed at changing your life, you need three things:

  • Education: know HOW to get in shape
  • Inspiration: know WHY you’re getting in shape
  • Support: having others help you along the way to get in shape

If you can successfully combine these three crucial pieces, then you’ll defeat Ganon and save Hyrule have a fightin’ chance at getting in the best damn shape of your life.


1) If you made some New Year’s Resolutions for 2012, make sure they don’t suck.  Be incredibly specific with your goals so that you can actively plan what steps are needed to achieve those goals.  Alternatively, if you somebody that NEVER succeeds at your goals, instead try making a new habit every 30 days…put the focus on the habit and not the goal.

Whichever method you decide, it’s important to be deliberate in your actions:

  • If you are setting goals – be SUPER SPECIFIC, write them down, and plan them out.
  • If you are making new habits – add them to your calendar, set phone alarms or alerts, and do them EVERY DAY.
  • Understand that Rome wasn’t built in a day, and Optimus Prime didn’t transform in one move.  This is NOT a diet, or a quick fix, but a LIFESTYLE CHANGE.  Don’t expect overnight results, or abs in two weeks.  Slow, steady progress.

2) Identify your kryptonite.  If you tried to get in shape in the past and failed, it’s important to know WHY.  Did you get sick and give up after a few days?  Did you go on vacation and say “why bother?”  Maybe you just got bored?  If you sucked at getting in shape last time, educate yourself on the hurdles and kryptonite that made you suck, and work on either avoiding those pitfalls or develop methods to deal with them.

3) Clean up your diet.  Believe it or not, 80% of your success when it comes to getting healthy will depend on your diet – unless you are running marathons on a daily basis, you cannot outrun your fork, and you can’t out-train a bad diet.  I honestly cannot stress the importance of this enough.  Whether you want to count calories, cut out certain foods, or attempt a new diet all together, this is the most important step you can take:

Now, most people suck at eating better because they try to make TOO many changes at once, their stomach freaks out and they run back to their comfort foods.  My advice?  Pick one food change every few weeks, and stick with it.  Whether it’s eating less calories per day, drinking one less soda, eating more vegetables or cooking your own meal once a week…small changes can lead to big successes in the long run.

4) Find an activity that makes you happy, and do it all of the time.  Do you like to run?  Awesome, do that (just do it right).  Do you like to lift weights?  Awesome, make sure your workouts don’t suck.   Maybe you like yoga, or dodgeball, or Ultimate Frisbee, or rock climbing, or whatever!  If you tell me that “I don’t like to exercise,” then you just haven’t found the activity that makes you happy yet.

We’re genetically designed to be active.  If you don’t like to move, then it’s time to try new things until you find something that you DO like.  Sign up for a new class, join your company’s running club for a day, try out something in your basement or living room, just keep trying new stuff until you find something that you like.  And then do it as often as you can.

Remember, your diet is 80% of your success or failure.   Exercising regularly will help you build muscle, strengthen your heart, lose weight, increase your endurance, stamina, and/or flexibility.  On top of that, regular exercise keeps your mind thinking healthy, which in turn will keep your stomach thinking healthy, which will cause your mouth to want to continue eating healthy foods.  It’s the circle of life, sucka.

Now, if you want specific direction on weight lifting, weight loss, or muscle building, you may want to check out the Nerd Fitness Academy. The NF Academy is an online, self-paced course and fitness “quest” tracking system with over 20,000 students from every corner of the globe.

If you’re more of a do-it-yourself kind of person, you can build your own workout, or get started with a free resource like my Angry Birds workout.  The important thing is to GET STARTED, and then try to get better each time.

5) Put it all together:  These are the steps you can take today:

  • Determine your goals or habits you want to establish.  Write them down and hang them up.
  • Determine why you sucked in the past and how you can avoid it in the future.
  • Start cleaning up your diet in whatever method works best for you.
  • Pick an activity that makes you happy, and do it.  A lot.


WHY do you want to get in shape?  What is your reason for wanting to do so? Do you want to get in shape to…

  • Impress a cute coworker?
  • Win a weight loss competition at work?
  • Eventually play with your newborn son?
  • Grow old with your significant other?
  • Prove everybody wrong who said “you can’t do it?”

Have a freaking reason, friend!  Write it down, hang it up in your bedroom, have a calendar alert pop up every day, whatever.  But keep that reason for wanting a better life at the front of your mind at all times.

Many people get inspired by reading success stories of folks like them.  Luckily for you, we have lots of those stories on Nerd Fitness with many more to come:

Maybe success stories aren’t your thing; completely understandable. Maybe you like to get your inspiration from slightly nerdier sources like archaeologists, hobbits, Link, assassins, jedi, or the One.

Or maybe you’re a video fan!  Well then, videos like this and this will make you want to run through walls.

Like to read? Try this one.

Here’s the deal: It will never be easy.  Unless you have motivation to succeed, and can find inspiration to push through the crappy days, you will give up at the first sign of resistance.

I’m a nice guy, so I crammed all of the inspiration you’ll ever need into one place.  You’re welcome.


Last but not least, you need support.

Yes, I understand its kind of fun to be an army of one: the lone ranger trying to succeed against insurmountable odds….but it’s not necessary.

Once you decide to get in shape, want to know the best way to guarantee success?  Make it public.  Tell all of your friends, start a blog, and/or inform your co-workers and ask them to keep you accountable!  Unless you like being called a quitter, you’ll probably think twice about skipping out on your workouts.

Maybe your word isn’t your bond, and you need a different kind of motivation and support to succeed.  Try money.  My buddy Saint said he would pay his friends $500 if he didn’t get in absolutely incredible shape for his wedding six months down the road.  Saint didn’t have $500 to lose, so he decided instead to just get in great shape…and it worked.

Build your own Jedi Council – find people who are stronger than you and work out with them, or faster than you and run with them, or more educated than you and ask them questions.  These are people that you can turn to when you need advice or help.  If you don’t know anybody in real life, keep reading…

Find a workout buddy!  There are going to be days when you want to sleep in and skip your workout.  There will be afternoons following a crappy day of work where all you want to do is play Halo.  Find somebody who’s at a similar level of fitness as you, and work out with them!  He/she will push you on days when you’re dragging, and vice versa.  You can inspire and support each other, feed off of each other’s success, and offer up tough love when the complaining gets too much (and yes, there will be complaining).

Now, let’s say you’re the ONE person in your group of friends that wants to get in shape.  Or you’re the only person in your office who doesn’t stuff his face every day.   Maybe you don’t have anybody to turn to for support or advice…

We’ve got you covered. 

The Nerd Fitness community: a persistently amazing, always inspiring, never judgmental group of people who want nothing more than to help you succeed.  I have never been more excited to be part of a community.

This 100% free community has almost 4,000 members, hundreds of successful w00ts, and we’re rapidly approaching our 100,000th post.

Dominate life

Today starts a new 6-week challenge in the Nerd Fitness community.

It’s pretty damn simple: pick a few goals that you hope to accomplish in the next six weeks and then start working towards them.  We’ll pick a winner at the end of the challenge – along the way you’ll make new friends, challenge each other with mini contests, and more.

You can even try out the latest features just added to the boards: blogs Yup, you can start writing your own articles and keeping track of your stuff right on the site – workouts, food intake, whatever floats your boat.

So, come join us.

Educate yourself, find your inspiration, and create your support group. 

Sucking at life stops here.  Welcome to the Rebellion.

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  • Angel

    I guess I’m the first person to leave a comment in a while.
    It’s insane how your information is incredibly accurate. Funny enough, I will probably feel really good about this information for a week and then as you said slowly go back to being lazy.
    I think the main reason I stop is because ( like you said ) I get bored with it. Not a lot of people want to get active and the support isn’t really there. I have recently tried to put together a netball team ( even though I have no idea how to play ) to encourage my friends to get in shape. But nothing is working.
    Anyway I just wanted to thank you for the information.

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  • http://letsgetandstayhealthy.com/blog Getting Healthy

    Hi Steve, I agree you need inspiration and you need a plan and then stick to it, no matter what and a good Jedi Council around you will always help! I think achieving a great weight loss goal is the ability to get into the Millennium Falcon, speed into the future, check yourself out and see how good you look, then back to your own galaxy and start exercises – knowing you have something definitely great to look forward to! I too have written a very simple piece on losing weight check it out if you like at http://letsgetandstayhealthy.com/blog/losing-weight-dont-get-caught-up-in-fad-diets

  • Alex Richerd

    I feel happiness to read the content that you are posting.

  • BecomingTheBestMe

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  • Zombification

    I would like to point out this is just another bs motivation article and nothing concrete. It has bonus of links to other bs motivational articles. It’s not even a guide because it doesn’t cover a single thing in detail.

  • katie bowers

    Hell+O EVERYONE…..my name is Katie, im a single mom with 2boys…4yrs old;&8….i am 34(shhhhh) BuT….i FeeL 24…in fact; in as little as 5months..begining with a text message from an exboyfriend that read, “This is Erin…The Love of Brad’s (exboyfriend)Life…Do Not ever text his phone again..” well…alright..in that moment..i was struggling…it was make or break:30…&I’m here to tell u&my boys&The 🌎 world&this website…this mom: MaDe iT….against all odds…no support system….&by the Grace of God…its funny that i read the Optimus Prime analogy….bc it’s the one i use to reference my transformation…i chose 💃 dance as my method to the madness…there were days i thought i couldnt possibly keep going&there were days i thought i’d never stop…the more frustrating my life would become; i danced….when i thought i was going to end up on an episode of SNAPPED…again, i danced..mind u..im 34….I’m too old to be “twirking”…it’s not lady like&simply not my style…i couldn’t afford a gym nor did i have The TIME….i lack the mental capacity to remember choreography&never gave it an entertained thought…no home computer& barely a cell phone…but its all i needed to Bluetooth my Google music app to my speaker&it was ON….i am so excited to tell you that i am in AWESOME shape…in fact, im working on chiseling my 6pk rt now…no ab crunch(in the begining 2months…but none recently)…man, what a journey its been…its my own PersoNaliZeD routine…best way to describe it…Theatrical(my face became paralyzed on the right side; so this helps improve muscle atrophy through expression); ballet/elegant…bc i do wear ballet shoes&i am STEADILY on my toes, hip hop…& i am defying gravity…..up, up,&away…i cant believe i haven’t fallen yet….its coming&when it does/ im sure its gonna be BIG…lol…but No PaiN NO GAIN….the kids also like to dance…so its been an all around positive transition in my life…i ran across this website&since i dont have NEBODY to share with that really cares; im sharing my story with all of you awesome ppl NOW….thank you for taking the time to read this&may God Bless your journey to a Happier/Healthier way of LiViNG…bc it’s the absolute best thing that has ever happened in my life…i needed the physical strength& mental stability to raise 2boys by myself….through God&by DaNcinG….I now have it…not without effort, but nobody can give it to u….u have to want it bad enough& TAKE iT..u owe it to urself 100%….GooD+LucK….U CAN…Take The “T” out of Can’T& “T”rash+iT…bc YOU CaN!

  • Mike Dihigo

    I love this article!
    I talk what your gym clothes say about you.
    Check it out on my youtube channel http://www.youtube.com/crazymike0_o

  • R.T

    I’ve yet to see to see a comment from the same person consistently. Is this program legit or just bs? I need to know what to eat, when to eat, what type of exercises to do beginning from week one. I’m an older person and don’t want to get hurt.