How to NOT Suck At Losing Weight

So you want to lose weight.

You’ve finally hit that point where you’re ready to mix things up: you stepped on the scale and it was too damn high, you had to buy a bigger pair of pants, or you reached the top of the steps and you were exhausted.

Whatever your reasons are for reading this, I’m glad to have ya – you need to start somewhere, right?

Might as well make today the day.

When it comes to weight loss, I’ve heard every kind of story from people who have tried and eventually quit.

The moral of each story is this: they sucked at losing weight – there was a fundamental flaw in their plan that doomed them from the start.  I want to make sure that doesn’t happen to you so you’re not wasting your time.

Before we start, please know that everything listed below is my personal opinion, based on my own research and my experiences with helping people lose weight.  Take what works for you and ignore the rest of it.

Change your Mind

If I were a gambling man (which I DEFINITELY am), I’d wager that you’ve tried to lose weight before.

Whether it was a specific diet, or a new fad, a weight loss challenge at work, or a diet pill that you saw on TV, you probably lost a few pounds and after two weeks you went on vacation, got sick, or found last year’s Halloween stash of Peanut M&M’s and gave up.

What we need to figure out is why were you unsuccessful in the past, and what went wrong:

  • How much did you REALLY want to lose that weight?
  • Were you willing to cut back on drinking?
  • Did you really give up fast food?
  • Did you get lazy and start ordering pizza all the time?
  • Did you half-ass it?
  • Did you get sick and give up after you got healthy?
  • Did you have one bad day and then not keep going?

It all starts with your mental attitude. I know that sounds lame, but it’s the truth.

If you’re not committed to this whole weight loss thing for the right reasons with the right attitude, it ain’t gonna work.

Some famous guy once said “those who forget history are doomed to repeat it.” Figure out what will make this time different, and recognize the old habits when they start to creep in –  if you can stay away from these triggers, you’ll have a better chance of survival.

In the Nerd Fitness Academy, our flagship course that has helped 40,000 people lose weight and get in shape, we call this your BIG WHY – it’s the reason you’re going to do this. You’ll need to remember it when things get tough!

Your Diet is 80% of the Battle

You can’t outrun your fork, so just going to the gym isn’t going to solve your problems.

Sure, exercise is a big part of being healthy, but it’s your diet that really takes that cake (which is better than you taking the cake.  The cake is a lie!).

I’m going to guess you probably didn’t want to spend five hours a day in the gym anyway, so this should come as good news.

I’ve said this before, I’ll say it again: if you exercise 10 hours a week (which is a considerable amount of exercise if you’re used to sitting on your butt), you still have 158 hours to screw things up.

If you want to lose weight, you absolutely need to make changes to your diet. There’s no way around it. Just twenty to thirty minutes a day of physical activity to get your heart race pumping is enough to keep you healthy (along with a good diet).  Find something you enjoy doing, and do it all the time.

Here’s how to get started with eating healthier.

Don’t Diet!

Going on a diet sucks. It’s extremely restrictive, it forces you to deprive yourself of anything tasty, and once you’re done with it you balloon right back up to where you started.  Why waste your time?  A diet will not change your life; it’s a change in your lifestyle that will change your life.

Today, you’re going to skip Taco Bell after work – not because you’re on a diet, but because the new you just doesn’t eat there.  (I don’t care that they have new special black taco shells either; it’s just food coloring).

Now, it’s up to you to determine how different this new you really is.  The more you try to change all at once, the higher chance you’ll have at giving up. You need to find a good balance of changes, slowly incorporating new things into your routine.  This brings me to my next point:

Make Small Changes, Relish Small Victories

If you try to change everything at once, you’re going to get overwhelmed.  If you generally make ten trips a week to McDonald’s and drink five cases of Mountain Dew, switching to all vegetables and water will probably drive you bonkers.

Instead, pick one thing a week and change it. Switch from white bread to wheat bread, white rice to brown rice, regular soda to diet soda, diet soda to water, give up one extra meal a week from the BK Lounge, stop going to the vending machine at your office, etc.  Analyze your diet, find one thing a week to change, and eventually you’ll get to the point where you don’t even miss it anymore.

Remember: it’s a marathon, not a sprint. I guarantee that first time one of your co-workers asks, “hey, did you lose weight?” it’s going to feel amazing.  Build on that victory and keep the momentum going. A body in motion tends to stay in motion (thanks Mr. Wizard!) – once you get the ball rolling, keep it rolling.  If this week’s weigh-in isn’t as low as you had hoped, don’t let it slow you down.  Think big picture and keep doing what you’re doing.

Use Your Brain

3500 calories = 1 lb. of body fat.

If you consume 500 less calories per day (or burn 5oo extra calories per day with exercise), you will lose a pound per week.  So what’s easier: saying no to a big gulp of Mountain Dew, or running 5 miles?  Doing the Dew is 500 calories.  Running five miles burns 500 calories.  Why not skip the soda and skip the five miles?  You stay even.  If you skip the soda AND run the five miles, you’ll lose a pound.  It’s really a numbers game.

You overachieving readers are already wondering: “If 500 calories less per day will make me lose one pound, then 1000 calories will make me lose two pounds, and 1500 will help me lose three pounds…”  This is true, sorta.  You really shouldn’t aim to lose more than 1% of your body weight per week.  If you weight 200 pounds and you want to weigh 150, aim two pound loss per week.  Don’t get too greedy, or things might backfire.

1-2 pounds a week is a safe, obtainable, sustainable goal. Don’t get too crazy, or your plan will backfire.

How to Lose Weight

Okay, so now you understand how it works.  You did your reading, and you want to know what to eat to lose weight.

You really have two options:

  • Keep eating what you’re eating now, but eat less of it.
  • Change what you’re eating.

If you want to keep eating what you’re eating now: you’ll need to count calories and eat less of it, consistently.

Here’s what you do: sign up for a free account at Gyminee.com and spend a few days keeping track of EVERYTHING you eat and drink.

A half a can of Coke counts,  a handful of your kid’s Goldfish count.  The two light beers after work definitely count.  I guarantee you eat more calories than you think.  After a few days, you can start pinpointing places where you can cut stuff out or reduce your portions.  At this point, it’s up to you to stick with it.

If you don’t want to keep track of what you’re eating: You’re going to need to make some changes to your diet. First and foremost, dump the soda, and cut out sugar.

Eat Real Food

Stop loading your system with junk food.  Eat real foods like fresh fruits, vegetables, nuts, and lean meats.

GET RID of simple carbs and starches, which can be found in: cookies, soda, crackers, rice, pasta, bread, candy, cereals, bagels, french fries, juice drinks, Gatorade, sweet Tea, and so on.

No matter the calorie and “fat content” of these things, it’s the carbs and sugar content that jack up your system and make you fat.

SUGAR IS THE WORST!

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Although I’m actually trying to bulk up, switching to a more natural Paleo Diet (which I explain here) has caused me to lose close to 10 pounds of fat and maintaining my muscle mass.

Give up the low-fat meals from the freezer section (they’re made in a lab with chemicals and loaded with sugar), and eat all the vegetables and lean meats and fruits you want. If you switch to all fruits, veggies, and lean meats, you WILL lose weight.

I explain my take on the Paleo Diet, but it makes a lot of sense, and it works.  As I said at the beginning, this is the lifestyle that works for me and has worked for many of my readers.

Consider skipping breakfast!

I haven’t eaten breakfast in a few years and found it to be one of the healthiest things I’ve done for myself.

Deep dive into my article on Intermittent Fasting and learn about why breakfast might NOT be the most important meal of the day.

Don’t Use Supplements

Every single day, there’s a new ad for a weight loss supplement that promises incredible results in a short amount of time without having to do any diet or exercise change.

When something seems too good to be true, it’s because it is.

These weight loss supplements don’t work and they can cause some serious damage to your insides.

Better safe than sorry.

Losing weight should be important to you, but not at the expensive your overall health.  My advice: keep your money, spend it on a session with a dietitian or personal trainer, and thank me later.

Don’t Be So Hard on Yourself

It’s okay to slip up.  So you drank a case of Bud Light and watched 10 hours of football on Saturday while eating an entire box of Girl Scout cookies.

Who gives a ****!

You can’t do too much damage to yourself in a weekend (unless you decide to start snorting Drain-O or something), so take it easy with your food consumption for the few days after that and get back on the train.  One or two days isn’t terrible; it’s when you let that one day snowball into a few days/a week/a month that things quickly go to hell.

Never give up, never surrender!  Buzz Lightyear would be proud.

Make Yourself Accountable

Tell everybody you know that you’re losing weight.  It’s one thing to let yourself down when you skip a workout and pig out every other day, it’s another when you have to tell everybody around you that you’re slacking.

Like my friend Saint, who put his money where his mouth is, and bet his friends he could lose enough weight before his wedding. And he got freaking ripped.

What is Your Change for This Week?

I’m sure there are a few things I left out, which need to be in here to keep people from sucking.

What did I forget? Leave in the comments and I’ll edit them into the article for future readers.

What’s the one change you’re going to make this week?

-Steve

PS: If you’re looking to get rid of all the questions and confusion, get started, and have the confidence to train and eat right, check out The Nerd Fitness Academy, home to 40,000 students who are actively working to get healthier and happier.

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